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We are malaysian, and we are guys!Sunday, October 01, 2006
So You're telling Us that Love Hurts?
There are millions of teenagers in Malaysia.
80% of these teenagers are involved in relationships.
It is sad to say that 20% of these relationships lead to unneccessary drama that is unfortunately condoned by the media by their act of playing shows like The O.C and One Tree Hill on Malaysia's most popular cable network.
But if we were to look back on the parents that lived through college life during the 50's to the 70's, you could actually realise that love is so practical that there is no need for the extreme emotional rollercoaster rides to be taken in the midst of a proper boy girl relationship.
Three rules to remember while dating :
1. It is not permanent.
2. Respect one another's different family values.
3. There are many more relationships to come.
Yes, this is all so cliched. But wouldn't you think that these rules should apply in a generation that considers public displays of emotion a common thing?
Why fight in a bar and embarass yourselves? Why do it over and over again?
Why create gangster-esque fueds in academic institutions?
Why relate adolescent perversion to the true meanings of love?
Giving a blow job isn't an act of promising a future today.
Asking for one and receiving it without an ounce of guilt is pure chauvinism.
Kudos to those that maintain the decency and dignity of a relationship. You can't get any more mature than that.
To those that are single, take this as a lesson and apply it in future relationships.
To those that would readily admit to being involved in the real life versions of these case scenarios, it's time to re-evaluate yourselves, and please remember to cause a little less drama in the future.
80% of these teenagers are involved in relationships.
It is sad to say that 20% of these relationships lead to unneccessary drama that is unfortunately condoned by the media by their act of playing shows like The O.C and One Tree Hill on Malaysia's most popular cable network.
But if we were to look back on the parents that lived through college life during the 50's to the 70's, you could actually realise that love is so practical that there is no need for the extreme emotional rollercoaster rides to be taken in the midst of a proper boy girl relationship.
Three rules to remember while dating :
1. It is not permanent.
2. Respect one another's different family values.
3. There are many more relationships to come.
Yes, this is all so cliched. But wouldn't you think that these rules should apply in a generation that considers public displays of emotion a common thing?
Why fight in a bar and embarass yourselves? Why do it over and over again?
Why create gangster-esque fueds in academic institutions?
Why relate adolescent perversion to the true meanings of love?
Giving a blow job isn't an act of promising a future today.
Asking for one and receiving it without an ounce of guilt is pure chauvinism.
Kudos to those that maintain the decency and dignity of a relationship. You can't get any more mature than that.
To those that are single, take this as a lesson and apply it in future relationships.
To those that would readily admit to being involved in the real life versions of these case scenarios, it's time to re-evaluate yourselves, and please remember to cause a little less drama in the future.
'bagaikan babak dalam cerita 'The O.C'
posted by Malaysian Hunks # 7:51 PM 
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in the immortal words of marissa cooper: omg, i SO totally agree.
it's funny - and increasingly alarming - on how couples are going out of their way to *dramatise* their relationship. i mean, i would want mine to stay as simple and as fuss free as humanly possible, and here are these people looking for trouble (so to speak lah) and trying to *spice* things up. i mean, COME ON. unless your lives are broadcasted across the world and your income depends on it, what for to menyusahkan yourself right?? jesus.
anyways, i found your (yours) blog thru a comment you left on mine. thanks for reading. hee.. :) i've linked this blog up too, if you don't mind.
cheers!
it's funny - and increasingly alarming - on how couples are going out of their way to *dramatise* their relationship. i mean, i would want mine to stay as simple and as fuss free as humanly possible, and here are these people looking for trouble (so to speak lah) and trying to *spice* things up. i mean, COME ON. unless your lives are broadcasted across the world and your income depends on it, what for to menyusahkan yourself right?? jesus.
anyways, i found your (yours) blog thru a comment you left on mine. thanks for reading. hee.. :) i've linked this blog up too, if you don't mind.
cheers!
hai.....would you mind if i ask something..about the courtship in malaysia...if theres a melayu term for that... and everything dat are related to it...i just need it in my research paper...
if your willing to help...pls email me at kimilot@gmail.com.terima kasih
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if your willing to help...pls email me at kimilot@gmail.com.terima kasih
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